Annrik
A few thoughts on what seemed to be the overwhelming question: “WHY?”
Because sometimes, life is damned unfair.
Because sometimes, we lose people we love and it hurts deeply.
Because sometimes there aren’t really answers to our questions except for what we discover, the meaning we assign them over time.
Because acceptance is yet another of life’s “here’s a side of hurt” lessons and it is never truly acceptance unless it has cost us something to arrive there.
You must understand the whole of life, not just one little part of it. That is why you must read, that is why you must look at the skies, that is why you must sing, and dance, and write poems, and suffer, and understand, for all that is life........ This is all what I found as an answer for why.
Inadequate yet true.
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Annrik
The people have an insatiable curiosity to know everything, except what is worth knowing. I'm starting a blog post on this note because this post may not be worth reading for many of you but you would read it. Why? Answer is curiosity to the question that what can someone write about such a trivial matter and why would someone write about it? Albert Einstein said “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe." This very quote inspired me to write post on such an unimportant thing. So hoping to find some people who would read it I would continue with my "STUPID PHILOSOPHIES." Some of the facts that I would want my friends and my readers to know ( I know its easy to say than to do but believe me, I'm seriously trying, Even if I m not able to; I guess the inspiration is enough :p) :
1. Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
2. Some people are afraid of what they might find if they try to analyze themselves too much, but you have to crawl into your wounds to discover where your fears are. Once the bleeding starts, the cleansing can begin.
3. Sensation tells us a thing, Thinking tells us what this thing is, Feeling tells us what this thing is to us. So never close your heart to feeling something.
4. The people and circumstances around me do not make me what I am, they reveal who I am.
5. We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.
6. “People don't do things for you or against you, they do things for themselves - it's fortune, good or bad, to be in the way.
7. “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudice, and motivated by pride and vanity.
8. The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.
9. People don’t want their lives fixed. Nobody wants their problems solved. Their dramas. Their distractions. Their stories resolved. Their messes cleaned up. Because what would they have left? Just the big scary unknown.
If your happiness depends on what somebody else does then people you do have a problem. Never try to superficially analyse yourself, it excites doubt rather thoroughly explore yourself, it dispels doubt.
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Annrik
Finally an article about "What have I made in huge numbers????" I know my friends must have guessed it......"Enemies" Over the years I may have not grown as a writer but I've certainly grown as a person and here's the cliché - credit goes to ................ sorry this time its not 1, the credit goes not only to my friends but also my enemies. My misfortunes (not many in number) have tested my friends but even better, detected my enemies. Now the question is - How have I grown as a person? I always used to believe that a friend has the same enemies as you have but.........."but"; these days I have to use this word quite a lot, thanx to my friends. The enemies that I've made by taking a decided stand perhaps have more respect for me than the friends I've made by being on the fence. I've realized that it takes your friend and your enemy working together to hurt you, one will slander you and the other one will get the news to you. A doubtful friend is worse than a certain enemy. You may be deceived if you trust too much but you will live in torment unless you trust enough. The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are, Instead, we trust people
to be whom we want them to be and when they're not, we cry.
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Annrik
This post is dedicated to 5 of my
best friends surya , shrey, nimish,
avinash and nikku; who have always
been there..............
We are friends and I do like to pass the day with you in serious and inconsequential chatter. I wouldn't mind dusting beside you, reading the back half of the paper while you read the front. We are friends and I would miss you, do miss you and think of you very often even if there are miles between us.”
“Even though we've changed and we're all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spreads across our face, we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends.”
“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember. you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. but the most important thing is, even if we're apart.. i'll always be with you.”
Thanks for always being there.
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Annrik
Each person comes into the world with specific destiny - he has something to fulfill, some message has to be delivered, some work has to be completed. You are not here accidentally, you are here meaningfully.There is a purpose behind you, the whole world intends to do something through you. Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing. Theres only one thing that makes the dream impossible to achieve - the fear of failure.
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